December 2009
119 posts
“You were not born a winner, and you were not born a loser. You are what you make...”
– Lou Holtz
My tumblarity is decreasing, I'm glad. My number...
Confession: 044
instik:
I honestly think people who posts those reblog if you blah blah blah or w/e do it just to up their tumblarity because of reblogs.
I'm locking up my heart inside until the day I...
I must continue on without you by my side. It's...
How can time be so wrong for love to come along?
“A picture has the magic to make a moment last forever.”
You look at others and say "damn, I wanna be them"...
@KRIS or BEN.
vyvysaur:
doushitekris:
vyvysaur:
Thoughts on insecurity plawks.
uh…it’s the root of all evil At times we project our insecurities on others and blame them for what we can’t do or what we did. It can also cloud our minds and make us unable to think clearly therefore we make irrational decisions sometimes. Thats all I can think of right now but I’m sure Ben can give you a better and more in...
Bakit ka pa nakita? Bakit pa na kilala? Kung ang...
Translation: Why did I have to see you? Why did I have to know you? If you’re only going to leave and hurt my heart or something like that. I have no access to my personal translator atm *cough*Irina*cough*
Gonna learn from my pain, never explain, do it my...
From the start a person like you never existed to...
- Jaejoong
How we cope with stress
3 types: adaptive, less adaptive and maladaptive Adaptive - when we solve the problem, work towards a solution; we can’t change something so we must accept Less adaptive - we turn to our defense mechanisms; but when overused can be unhealthy
According to Freud, we chave 10 defense mechanisms when dealing with stress 1. Denial - pretending the problem doesn’t exist 2. Repression -...
Behaviors for good health and lessening stress
commit yourself to a value and belief system
view stressors as challenges rather than threats
perceive events as controllable
do not rely exclusively on one or two defense mechanisms for coping
engage in problem focused coping
cultivate an optimistic, positive attitude
develop a social support network
dont expect failure
be patient and flexible
laugh
manage your time wisely
engage in...
I see someone's style seemed to improve lately....
No I’m not talking about me, although I improved as well xD
Sometimes I wish I could take back everything....
vyvysaur:
doushitekris:
vyvysaur:
(via doushitekris)
You always post the things I want to say but, I don’t know how to word my feeling correctly. Thank you.
:DD I’m glad to hear that kinda lol Good because you can relate and all all but at the same time bad because the feeling isnt pleasant at all :/ Hopefully my future posts will help you more :]
I think you’ll find some of my posts...
I may not be as good as you on certain aspects,...
Sometimes I wish I could take back everything....
I thought that you were the best part of me. Baby,...
If you've smelled it, you've tasted it. This is...
so yes. we’ve tasted shit before ahaha xD eff our lives
First day of snow (well that stayed on the ground)
Here’s an insight of someone who live where it snow and has to drive. Yea snow is a beautiful thing to look at. It’s fun to play on, to make snowmen, have snowball fights, make snowangels. These are the things kids only think about. Now some adolescence and even adult think the same and I admit I do but there’s another side to it. You see, once you get your license you begin to...
We used to talk for hours until the night was...
Misty water color memories of the way we were....
These days it feels naive to put your faith in...
Confession # 65 - Lesson learned
I must say I impress myself. I’m thankful that I can easily intake lessons and learn it. Lessons? what subject? Wha? The so called “Life 101” class You’ve been taking it since birth. But anyways. because of this I can see now I’m able to easily learn from my mistakes. I know it may not always be on the first try but I eventually succeed in comprehending the lesson....
#324; We're Like Puzzle Pieces
emango:
It just takes awhile to put us together.
I dedicate this to Maria "maid" Flores
oh wait. no thats my grandma xD MEI VO DAMN IT! Grassy ass pho keeping me company for the past 4 hours and beared with my bipolar self x] but you helped me realize a few things so thank you Now I have more..what’s the word..eff it. to let go of things I’m nearing even more freedom :D Hello happinesss
Just 1 more week then 1 month of break
That gives me little time to convince my mom that we should to go to the Philippines for Christmas. Spending Christmas with not just my family but also relatives…omo That’s pure happiness right there All the effort I put on letting my mom let me go to Cali on my own = success Let’s see if all the efforts I put on something will result in success. Time to test this theory of...
I'm a living proof of many things (yes that...
Confession # 64 - I wish I have a place like...
I can't say I'm tired. It's because I'm too...
The scenery here is called “once loved.” Once...
Confession #63 - Pretending to be fine
I don’t let my family know I’m hurt because I don’t them to worry. I don’t tell my parents my problems because they already have enough things to deal with. I act like I’m fine when I’m not when I’m around them. I always seem to be apathetic or kinda mad whenever I talk them to hide that I’m hurting inside. I hide a lot of myself so that they...
Confession # 62 - I miss my family.
I’m not just talking about parents and siblings but also relatives. Not just blood related but also the ones whom I consider family as well. I miss them so much that I can’t explain this feeling that I have. :/
Why do people fall in love and then end up crying? Why do lovers walk away from themselves when their hearts are breaking? Why do loving sometimes never stay long? Why does gladness become sadness? Things that I don’t get. Someone’s always saying goodbye. I believe it hurts when we cry. Don’t we know parting’s never so easy? With all the achings inside, I believe some...
FFFUUU not loved by people on tumblr
instik:
eff it, not going to ask people to leave me formspring stuff whatever. </3
Blah anyways, I’m sick, I feel blaaaah….I still don’t want to sleep, anyways I have to study so it doesn’t matter. But I’m worried that I won’t be able to take in the information because I lack of sleep. TT~TT WAH, I feel like failing all my tests and quizzes this week, I really don’t care right now. :/
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They say only cry for those who are worth your...
Friendship =/
omfgitsmarieann:
mariannmaeee:
Look, Im sorry. Im sorry for bothering you. Im sorry for all the texts I send you. Im sorry for IMing you the second you get online. Im sorry I keep asking if youre free to hang out. Im sorry I ask random questions. Im sorry that I ask about your life. Im sorry that Im a bother to you. Im sorry that I always recite all those silly friendship quotes. But heres the...
Why does my heart feel troubled?
Confession #59
Jealousy is something I’ll never be able to get rid of. I’ll just accept it as who I am and learn how to sustain it.
Confession #58
There have been signs that’s making me really worried lately. I have yet to tell anyone about it except one person. I don’t want to tell my mom about it because I don’t want her to worry. I’m scared to find out if it’s something really awful. Then again I know I shouldn’t ignore it because it might be prevented before it’s too late.
Confession #57 - I collect price tags & receipts
of all the clothes I bought xD since freshman year of high skool :D then at times I’d tally them all up and see the total and go DAYUMMM…that’s a lot of money. haha :P
Confession #56 - Simple life
I would honestly trade all these high tech stuff and all that to live a simple life again. (expections of straighteners and such LOL. thats taking away part of my happiness! >:O I cant deal with poo hair) In the country, where things are not so polluted and noisy. Not so much technology to keep us from enjoying what’s out there. To spend time with family, to play outside, to breathe the...
Dalenas signature call ;D
Why I like going to filipino parties
-one of my my moms friends or my “titas” always compliment something about me mainly my hair xD one of my tita said my hair was wow I look like an “artista” or actor/celebrity and that I was handsome >< flattering lol and embarassing I didnt know to respond to any of that so I just stood there and smiled I feel kinda bad for my brother though cause everytime we go to...
7 months
I can’t believe time is going by so fast. It feels unreal that I’m unable to celebrate Christmas this year with you. Usually around this time, I’d put on your little santa hat and suit that’s too small for your chubby body lol and take pictures. Sam I miss you buddy T__T I know I can’t turn back time but I just wish one day I’ll be able to spend some time with...